I'm Lisa Sinclair, and what I want to do is help you find out how to really connect with women, just like me.我叫丽莎辛克莱，和我想要做的是帮助您了解如何真正可以与妇女和我一样。 Who better to give you real advice on what we women really like and want than a female?谁给你更好的女人真的喜欢什么，我们真正的意见和比女性要什么？ If you really want to know what attracts us and what we look for, then you've come to the right place….如果你真的想知道是什么吸引我们，我们需要的人才，那么您来对了地方...。

So you are a shy guy and you're a bit uncomfortable when you那么，你是一个害羞的家伙，你有点不舒服，你 talk to women女士谈话 . 。 You want to attract and impress that cute girl you've been keeping your eye on, huh?要吸引和打动你那个可爱的女孩就一直保留着，你的眼睛吧？ Well, let me give you some real advice that is sure to help you out.那么，让我给你一些意见，真正是一定要帮助你。 Listen up now, because I am here to shed some light on what women really look for and can give you some no nonsense tips on how to attract the damsels who rock your world.听好了，因为我在这里摆脱一些女人真正寻找光明，可以给你一些关于如何吸引狠心谁撼动你的世界没有废话的提示。

Women still like to feel protected 妇女仍然喜欢有安全感

容易吸引女性
It doesn't matter if you're shy, bald or over weight.这不要紧，如果你还比较害羞，秃头或以上的重量。 Easily get the “attitude” you need to轻松搞定“态度”你需要 attract & seduce women吸引和勾引妇女 . 。

Let's look at how you让我们来看看如何 approach a woman接近女人 when you ask her out, you have really got to be confident to attract us.当你问她，你真的得有信心，以吸引我们。 Fake it if you must, hey a little role playing never hurt anyone, but remember that women want a man who can at least appear confident.假的，如果你要，嘿有点角色扮演的从来没有伤害任何人，但请记住，女人要一个人谁可以至少出现充满信心。

We all want a guy who we know will handle a problem, or a situation, if it arises.我们都希望有一个家伙谁知道我们会处理的问题，或者一种情形，如果它出现。 Confidence and self assurance is an aphrodisiac to females and you want to know something, it doesn't matter if it is just a front, if we pick up the confident vibe…..you got us at “hello” .自信和自我保障是一种女性春药和您想知道的东西，这不要紧，这只是一个方面， 如果我们拿起信心盛传... ..你得到了“我们在”你好 。

This doesn't mean that we want a big jock or a muscle bound maniac, we just don't want a guy that is scared of his own shadow.这并不意味着我们希望有一个大的约克或肌肉的约束狂，我们只是不希望这是他自己的影子害怕的家伙。 If you ask us to take a walk in the park, we prefer to go with someone who will protect us from the rain or from the growling dog.如果您要求我们采取在公园里散步，我们更愿意去与别人谁可以防止雨水或从我们狂吠的狗。 Hey, you don't have to fight the dog, just let us know calmly that it really is okay, and the little Chihuahua won't attack.嘿，你没有打的狗，只是平静地让我们知道它确实是好了，小吉娃娃不会攻击。 If you are prepared to throw yourself in front of us if a snake crawls out of the grass, even better.如果你愿意扔在我们面前，如果你自己爬出来的蛇草，甚至更好。 You can score some huge points for this act of bravery.你可以得分为这种英勇行为的一些巨大问题。

Dress for attraction 连衣裙的吸引力

Now let's cover another point of attraction, the first date, you gotta dress if you wanna impress.现在，让我们的封面另一个吸引力，第一次约会，你得打扮点，如果你想留下深刻的印象。 Think about it if you want to attract that cutie to you, it takes a little spice, and this begins with how you look.想想看，如果你想吸引你的可爱，它需要一点点香料，这与你的外表开始。 No, I don't mean Hollywood handsome, c'mon and give me a break. If you take more mirror time than us, there might be a problem .不，我不是指好莱坞英俊，来吧，给我一个突破。 如果你的时间比我们更镜子，有可能是个问题 。

We want a guy who's neat and clean and remembers to wear shoes to the restaurant.我们希望有一个家伙谁的整洁，记得穿鞋的餐厅。 A first date means NO T-SHIRTS, unless we're heading to the beach, and even then that tee had better be cool enough to tame the summer sun.第一次约会是指没有T -恤衫，除非我们前往海滩，甚至那T恤最好是冷静，足以驯服阳光。 Sloppy clothing, wrinkled duds, grungy jeans and tacky shoes spell LOSER.邋遢衣服，满脸皱纹哑弹，蹩脚的牛仔裤和鞋子俗气法术失败者。 You don't have to splurge on a new suit, but go for a little style, make us want to see what's in that cutely wrapped package.您没有挥霍的一套新衣服，而且还会一点点的风格，使我们想看看在这cutely裹着的小包的。

Plan the date ahead of time 计划的日期提前

Please show up with a plan for the date and don't expect us to come up with an idea at date time.请出示最多的一个计划的日期，不要期望我们拿出一个在日期时间的想法。 It may be nice to ask us beforehand what we like, but remember the confidence issue, let us see that you can take charge of things.它可能是好的，要求我们事先什么我们喜欢的，但要记住信心的问题，让我们看到，你可以利用的东西负责。 If you have a special event set just let us know whether we need to go casual or semi-formal.如果你有一个特别的活动设置只是让我们知道我们是否需要去休闲或半正式的。

Have the evening planned in advance and we will probably add the tip for you to show our appreciation for a lovely date.事前计划的晚上，我们可能会添加小费，为您展现我们的一个可爱的日期表示赞赏。 Wine and cheese tasting, reservations at a nice restaurant, an evening at a live theater show….these are all great and it makes us really feel great when little details are attended to ahead of time .葡萄酒和奶酪品尝， 时间预定在一个不错的餐馆，剧院一个晚上在一个现场表演...。这些都是伟大的， 它使我们真正感受到大时小的细节都照顾到前面 。 And surprise sweetens the deal for all the ladies; we really appreciate the effort that you put into the preparations.和惊喜舒畅所有的女士处理，我们很欣赏你的努力，投入到准备工作。

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