By Lisa Sinclair由Lisa辛克萊爾

There she is.她來。 And she's gorgeous.而她的華麗。 You'd love to talk to her, to get to know her, to see if she's interested in you.你會喜歡她談談，去了解她，看看她的興趣在你身上。

The problem is that you're sure you'll mess it up, say the wrong thing, say something offensive or just be plain old boring.問題是，你肯定你會搞砸了，說錯了，說了一些進攻性或只是普通的舊無聊。 Embarrassment looms like it has so many times before.尷尬織機喜歡它有這麼多遍。

Many guys hide behind safe and polite conversation, fearing that any flirting will result in outright, embarrassing rejection.許多人躲在安全和禮貌的談話，擔心會造成任何直接的調情，尷尬的拒絕。 Some guys just can't get past “hi.”有的人就是不能把過去的“喜”。

And lots more guys, I've seen it a million times, just look and then don't even try.和更多的球員，我已經看到了100萬次，單看然後不甚至嘗試。

Approaching a woman can be intimidating, even terrifying.走近一個女人可以恐嚇，甚至是可怕的。 There is no single magic phrase that will work, so put that thought out of your head.沒有單一的魔語，將工作，所以把這個想法從你的腦子。

On the other hand, the right attitude and some simple techniques can multiply your chances of getting the girl and getting her home.另一方面，正確的態度和一些簡單的技術可以成倍的機會得到的女孩，讓她回家。

Nothing is as sweet as a little confidence when you are attempting to impress a woman 什麼是甜作為一個小的信心，當您正試圖打動女人

A smile, positive body language – these suggest that you are friendly and confident.一個微笑，積極的肢體語言 - 這表明你是友好和自信。 Do not overplay your hand and try to come across as Studley Dudley.不要誇大你的手，試圖讓我們覺得斯塔德利達德利。

We are talking about being friendly, polite and showing just the right amount of confidence.我們談論的是友善，禮貌，顯示適量的信心。 These also help put her at ease and create a warm and inviting atmosphere, which are prerequisites for any kind of rapport to develop.這也有助於把她放心，營造溫馨迷人的氛圍，這是先決條件任何一種關係發展。

Keep eye contact when walking toward her 保持目光接觸，對她走路時

Breaking eye contact when you approach a woman sends the message that you are not feeling good about this situation.打破目光接觸時你接近一個女人發出的信息是，你是不是感覺良好，這種情況。

Let her know that you find her attractive by smiling and looking her in the eye while you move toward her.讓她知道你不喜歡她的微笑著望著她的眼睛，而你走向她。

Devote all your attention to what she is saying 把一切你注意她在說什麼

A frequent complaint women have about men is that they just don't listen.一個經常抱怨女性對男性的是，他們就是不聽。 Often the best way to往往是最好的辦法 talk to women女士談話 is to be quiet and listen.是要安靜，聽。 Pay careful attention to what she says, and give an honest and thoughtful response.請特別注意她說的話，給一個誠實，周到的反應。 You don't have to blurt out the first words that come into your head.你不必脫口而出的第一句話是進入你的頭。 It's ok to think about what she said for a moment before responding.它的確定想想她說了一會兒才響應。

Remember, when a woman feels that you don't really have an interest in her…..she is not going to have any interest in you.記住，當一個女人覺得你真的沒有興趣，她... ..她是不會對你有任何興趣。 To really要真正 attract women吸引女人 you have be a good listener.你是一個很好的傾聽者。

Your tone and attitude can make you a dud instead of a stud 你的語氣和態度可以使你的啞彈，而不是一個螺柱

The tone of your voice and your attitude can make you or break you with the ladies at your first critical approach.你的聲音的語氣和你的態度可以使你或你的女士們打破你的第一個關鍵的方法。 Watch how you come across and how you sound.觀看你如何接觸和你的聲音。

You're looking for a relationship or an adventure, not negotiating a corporate merger or prosecuting a criminal trial.你在找關係或冒險，而不是談判的企業合併或起訴的刑事審判。 Ease up on yourself and the woman in question, enjoy the moment, have fun, and do not take everything too seriously.放鬆對自己和女人的問題，享受當下，有樂趣，不要把所有的東西看得太重。

Leave her always desiring and wanting more from you 給她總是渴望和想要更多的你

Don't talk too much about yourself.不要說太多關於自己。 Many women appreciate a guy who is just a little mysterious and gives them a feeling of intrigue.很多女性欣賞的傢伙誰是有點神秘的感覺，並讓他們的陰謀。 Let them know that there is plenty more to discover at a future time.讓他們知道，有很多更發現在將來某個時間。 Talking too much reveals too much information at the start, which kills any aspect of mystery and it also makes you look desperate which is not good at all.說得太多太多的信息顯示在一開始，它可以殺死任何方面的神秘感，同時也讓你看起來絕望這是不好的。

Remember – In those first few moments, the woman whose interest you want to attract is evaluating you quickly.記住 - 最初的那幾分鐘，女人誰的利益是要吸引您快速評估。 Try some of these tips to get the feel of how to approach and talk to women successfully.嚐嚐這些技巧來獲得感覺如何處理和談話的婦女成功。

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