If you have always loved each other as friends, and are now having feelings which go beyond what a female feels for a guy friend, it's time to accept the fact that you don't want to be his friend .  You want to be his girlfriend .如果你一直爱对方为朋友，而现在有这种感觉的朋友去超越一个人的女性认为，它的时间来接受这个事实，你不想成为他的朋友 。你想成为他的女朋友 。

You have probably known each other for a while and have always seemingly been happy with your “buddy” status.  Things change, though.  You may have noticed the urge to kiss your guy friend, in a decidedly non -friendly way.  Maybe you feel a crazy surge of jealousy when you see him flirting with other girls.  Do you want to scream “no way!” when other women ask about your guy friend?你可能已经相识，而其他的，始终是状态似乎很满意你的“哥们”。事情变化，但。您可能已经注意到，在坚决非友好的方式来吻你的冲动的家伙的朋友。也许你觉得疯狂飙升的嫉妒，当你看到他和别的女孩子调情。你想尖叫“不行！”当其他妇女朋友问有关你的男人？

If you can say yes to one or all of these, face it: you have got it bad for your guy friend, and it's time to make him into your boyfriend.  A few of the things you will need to do might feel challenging but they are sure to get his attention, and in the right way.如果你可以说是一个或所有这些，面对的是：你已完成了对你的男人的朋友不好，它的时间，使之成为你的男友他一个东西一些你需要做的可能会觉得挑战性，但它们。一定会得到他的注意，并以正确的方式。

First, pay less attention to him .  Don't be there for him so much, and make sure that you sometimes give the impression that you're too busy to talk.首先， 不重视他 。不要对他有太多的话，并确保你有时给人的印象是你太忙了交谈。 The last thing you want is for him to feel like you are the old reliable pal who he can go to for girl advice.  When he calls, don't pick up every time.过去的事你想要的是让他觉得你是可靠的老伙计，他可以去谁女孩意见。当他呼吁，不要拿起每一次。 Let him do most of the contact, and be really calm and casual around him when he does call.让他做的接触最多，真正做到冷静和他周围的休闲当他打电话。

Next, when you talk to him, be sure to drop little comments about the other guys who ask you out, who you are dating, or who's showing interest in you.  It's always a good thing to make him see that there are plenty of men who would love to be with you – that you are a valuable commodity in the dating world.接下来，当你和他说话，一定放弃对其他球员谁问你了，你是谁约会，或者谁小的评论的显示在你的兴趣。这总是一件好事，使他看到有很多人谁愿意和你在一起-你是一个约会世界提供了有价值的商品了。

When you and your guy friend spend time together, no matter where it is, be sure that he notices you talking and even being flirty with other men.  If you go to a party, spend very little time hanging around him.当你和你的男人的朋友在一起相处的时间，不管它在哪里，可以肯定，他通知你说话，甚至被人与其他男人调情。如果你去参加一个晚会，花很少的时间挂在他周围。 Instead, set out to meet new men, or talk to other people.  He will be sure to notice that your focus has shifted away from him.  This is a good way to get him a little jealous, and that will be good for him…and for the future of your relationship with him!相反，设置，以满足新的男人，或跟其他人。他一定会注意到你的焦点已经转移过来。这是一个好办法让他有点嫉妒，这将是对他有好处...和你与他的关系的未来！

If you are getting some signals from him such as jealousy and perhaps territorial behavior, then it might be time to put the last piece of the plan into action.  Time to talk to him about what you are looking for.  No, you don't have to be specific and say “I'm looking for YOU!” but you can hint around.  Tell him that none of the guys you've been seeing are right for you, and talk about the kind of man you are looking for.  Of course, this man's description will have a strong resemblance to him.如果你遇到这样的嫉妒，或许从他的领土行为的一些信号，那么可能是时候付诸实施该计划的最后一块。时候谈谈你正在寻找他。不，你不要具体，并说“我找你！”，但是你可以提示左右。告诉他的家伙，你已经看到你都不是正确的，对人的那种你要找的谈话。当然，这个人的描述将有很强的相似性给他。

You can go ahead and ask him what kind of woman he is looking for…and you will quite possibly be very surprised and pleased with his answer.  Even if you and your guy friend are not ready to take it beyond some thinly veiled flirtation at this point, it is an excellent start, and you both know where you stand.  Taking a relationship from friendship into romance can seem difficult at times: but it actually gives both people the best possible start since they have such a strong foundation.  Starting with a close friendship like the one you have already built is one of the best ways to build a long lasting and happy romantic union.你可以去前面，问他有什么样的女人，他正在寻找...，你很可能就非常惊讶和高兴他的回答。即使你和你的那个朋友是不是在这个准备采取一些超越它切成掩饰调情点，这是一个很好的开始，你都知道你的立场考虑，从浪漫的友好关系，才能似乎有时很难：。但它实际上给了两个人最好的开始，因为他们有这样一个坚实的基础与出发。喜欢你已经建立一个亲密的友谊是最好的方式建立一个长期持久的幸福浪漫的工会之一。

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