Use these tips for writing your personal online dating profile – and shine online! 使用这些技巧约会的形象书写你的个人在线-和光泽在线！

Your personal dating profile is the key to meeting your perfect match at online dating and personals services so it's surprising how many profiles are mediocre at best.With a little extra time, thought and effort, and the help of these tips, you can write a personal dating profile that attracts a large pool of admirers to take your pick from. 您的个人约会的形象的关键是会议和交友服务的完美匹配您的网上约会所以它的奇怪多少平庸的配置文件的提示在best.With一点额外的时间，思想和精力，而这些，帮助，你可以写一个人约会的形象，吸引了大批的崇拜者把你挑选。

  1. Invent a distinctive username: Your username (nickname) is the first hint at what kind of person you are. 发明了一种独特的用户名：您的用户名（昵称）是你第一次暗示什么样的人。 It needs to be original and memorable, while somehow summing you up – not easy in a dozen letters or so!它需要是原创的，令人难忘，而不知怎么总结你 - 不是在一个十几封信容易左右！ For ideas, think about your interests, background, location and personality.对于想法，想想你的兴趣，背景，地点和个性。 For instance, an outgoing person from Phoenix might choose PhoenixSparkler, an avid skier with a wild streak might be SnowTiger.例如，从外向的人可能会选择凤凰PhoenixSparkler，一个与野生连胜可能SnowTiger滑雪爱好者。 Humor's great(I recently spotted MissBehaving) but overly sentimental (LetMeBeTheOne), meaningless (Vyc2DX) or desperate sounding (SoLonelyInOhio) names area turn off.Give yourself time: think of a name before sitting down to complete your profile, as well as a couple of backup options.幽默的伟大（我最近发现MissBehaving），但过于多情（LetMeBeTheOne），无意义（Vyc2DX）或绝望的测深（SoLonelyInOhio）名称面积转off.Give自己的时间：一个名字想坐下来之前，完成您的个人资料，以及一夫妇的备份选项。 It's amazing how many “original” names are in use already.令人惊讶的是许多“原始”的名称已在使用中。 Most services spit out alternatives but they're usually unimaginative and full of numbers.大多数服务吐出的替代品，但他们通常缺乏想象力和数字爆满。
  2. Write a compelling headline: Your opening line, or headline, is like the first thing you see on an ad: it should compel people to read on and find out more about you. 写一个引人注目的标题：你的开行，或者标题，就像是你首先看到一个广告：它应促使人们阅读和了解你更多。 Don't be apologetic about being there – “I don't normally do this sort of thing” – and don't begin (as thousands do) with “My name's Bob, I'm 25 and live in Boise.” This isn't compelling.不要为在那里道歉 - “我不平常的事这类” - 不要开始（作为千做）“我叫鲍勃，我25岁，住在博伊西。”这的ISN '吨引人注目。 It's not even interesting.它也不有趣。 “Born in Boise, Heading for Barbados” is more the thing. “出生在博伊西，巴巴多斯标题”更多的是事情。 It's intriguing without being confusing, and raises questions: is Bob a traveler, a dreamer or working for an international company?它的有趣而不混乱，并提出了一些问题：一个是鲍勃旅行者，一个梦想家或为国际公司工作？ Only one way to find out – read on!Again, it's not easy.只有一种方式来发现 - 读再次，这并不容易！。 If you get stuck, a favorite line from a song, book or movie can say lot about you – who you like and/or what you believe in – and stands out to other people who love it too.如果您遇到问题，从一首歌曲，书籍或电影最喜欢的一句话可以说很多关于你 - 你喜欢谁和/或你所相信的 - 并随时出去谁也非常喜欢其他人。
  3. Post at least one photo: For 75% of online daters, the photo is the first thing they look for when browsing through profiles. 发表于至少一张照片：75％的网上daters，照片是他们首先寻找时，型材翻阅。 Not surprisingly, profiles with photos get ten to fifteen times the response of those without.毫不奇怪，附图型材获得十那些没有反应到15倍。 Including a photo is a must!But beware, some photos do more harm than good.其中一张照片是必须的！但要注意，一些照片做弊大于利。 Big offenders are photos that show you with someone else, or even worse, part of someone else.大违例者的照片，显示其他人帮你，或者更糟的是，别人的一部分。 (It might not be your ex, or your ex's body part, but people have no way of knowing.)If you don't have a suitable photo, get one taken, and keep it real – glamour shots could come back to haunt you. （这可能不是你的前任，或者你的前任的身体的一部分，但人们都无从得知。）如果你没有一个合适的照片，让一所，并使其保持真实 - 魅力镜头可以回来困扰你。 Think about asking a friend to pick out a photo that they think looks most like you.想想问一个朋友的照片，挑选出他们认为最像你。 Make sure people don't have to squint at the screen to see what you look like, and be sure to smile!确保人民不必在屏幕眯着眼睛，看看你的样子，并且一定要微笑！
  4. Check the right boxes: Most profiles have a hefty component of check boxes – age group, sex, and so on. 检查右框：大多数配置文件有一个复选框大幅组成部分-年龄组，性别，等等。 It's a basic thing but when researching sites I do it a lot myself: check the wrong boxes or forget to change them from a default setting that isn't right for me.这是一个基本的东西，但是当研究网站我做了很多自己：检查错误框或忘记更改默认设置，一般他们不适合我。 And I'm not alone.而且我并不孤独。 Believe it or not, a common mistake among online daters is choosing the wrong sex of their ideal partner.信不信由你，一个在网上daters常见的错误是选择理想的合作伙伴，他们错了性别。 So, take care over these basic but important details.因此，接管这些基本而重要的细节。
  5. Check your grammar and spelling: You might be the most intelligent person on the planet but if you rush your profile and don't check your spelling and grammar you're not going to come across well to anyone who values intelligence. 检查你的语法和拼写：您可能是这个星球上最聪明的人，但如果你冲你的个人资料，不检查拼写和语法你不会遇到任何人谁也值的情报。 You might like to prepare your freestyle entries using a program with spelling and grammar checkers, then paste them into your profile.你可能会喜欢你的自由泳项目准备使用有拼写和语法检查程序，然后将其粘贴到您的个人资料他们。
  6. Avoid clichés: Unfortunately, a lot of people say the same thing in the same way as everyone else. 避免陈词滥调：不幸的是，很多人对别人说同样的事情在同一个方式。 It's boring at best and unbelievable at worst.它的枯燥和难以置信充其量在最坏的情况。 Can we really believe that so many people “exercise regularly and keep in good shape”?难道我们真的相信有如此多的人“经常锻炼，保持良好的状态”？ Also, use a thesaurus to replace well-worn words like “good” and “nice” with more interesting, meaningful alternatives that add spice and sparkle to your profile.此外，使用同义词库来取代，如“好”与“好”更有趣，香料，添加到您的个人资料和闪光有意义的替代品陈腐的话。
  7. Make your meaning clear: Your spelling and grammar might be perfect but sometimes your words can convey a completely different meaning from what you intended. 让您的意思很清楚：您的拼写和语法可能是完美的，但有时你的话能传达你的原意完全不同的含义。 Give your profile a thorough reading to avoid potentially embarrassing or damaging misinterpretations!给您的个人资料通读，以避免潜在的尴尬或损坏的误解！
  8. Stick to your own style: Many online dating profiles include sections where you can express yourself in your own words. 坚持你自己的风格：许多网上约会剖面包括路段的话，你可以表达自己在你自己的。 It's a chance to make yourself more human and “real,” and other members can pick up lots of interesting information about you – clues they might find appealing – from the way you express yourself.这是一个机会，使自己更加人性化和“真实”和其他成员可以拿起你很多有趣的信息 - 从你的方式表达自己 - 他们可能会发现有吸引力的线索。 Don't block the process by suddenly adopting a style and tone that isn't really you.不要堵塞，突然采取一种风格和基调是不是真的，你的过程。
  9. Focus on your unique qualities: It's our unique qualities that make us attractive – and to some, very attractive! 专注于你独特的品质：这是我们我们有吸引力独特的品质，使-以及一些非常有吸引力！ When you have a chance to describe yourself, let these qualities shine.当你有机会来形容自己，让这些品质光芒。 Skip the things that people take for granted (and have in common) and focus on the things that make you, “you.”Perhaps you speak another language, have an unusual skill or interest, or something you feel passionately about.跳过事情，人们理所当然（并有共同）和关于东西，让你“你。”也许你会说另一种语言的焦点，有一个不同寻常的技能或兴趣，或者你觉得充满热情。 Small things count too.小东西也算。 If you change your hair color every other day or have an addiction to triple hot chili sauce, say so.如果你改变你的头发颜色每隔一天或有瘾三重辣椒酱，这么说。 People who share or appreciate your unique qualities will tune right in and they make great conversation starters if they decide to make a move!人们谁分享和欣赏你的独特品质将调整权，他们下大手艺不错，如果他们决定进行的举动！
  10. Flatter yourself – it's allowed!: If you're good at something or proud of yourself for something, go ahead and blow your own trumpet. 自以为是-这是允许的号角！：如果你擅长的东西或自己感到自豪的东西，请继续吹自己的。 Confidence (not to be confused with a raging ego!) is an attractive quality and there are plenty of ways to flatter yourself while sounding modest: “My friends say I'm…” or, “If I had to describe one thing about myself that I like…”信心（！不要与熊熊的自我混淆）是一个有吸引力的质量和方式有很多，而冠冕堂皇的奉承自己谦虚：“我的朋友说我是...”，或者“如果我来形容我自己的事情我喜欢...“
  11. Be honest: Many people can't resist the urge to be less than completely honest when writing their online personals profile. 坦率地说：很多人无法抗拒的冲动，是完全诚实的个人资料不足时，他们的写作线上交友。 Women tend to lie about their appearance and men about their status and physical prowess.妇女往往在于他们的外观和对他们的身体状况和实力的人。 There's really no need.实在没有必要。 Online dating and personals services have thousands if not millions of members.网上约会和交友服务，如果不是数千数百万会员。 You've got a great chance of meeting someone who's attracted to the real you, warts and all.你已经有了一个很好的机会遇见一个谁是真正的吸引你，疣和所有。 Of course, there's no need to tell your darkest secrets – just keep it real.当然，没有必要告诉你最黑暗的秘密 - 把一切真实。 You'll be able to pursue relationships without having to worry about all the lies you've spun.您将能够追求的关系，而不必担心所有的谎言你打转。 Honesty is an attractive trait.诚信是一个有吸引力的特性。
  12. Be passionate about your passions: If you have a hobby or interest that you're absolutely passionate about, that takes up a lot of your time and energy, go ahead and rave about it. 要热爱你的激情：如果你有什么爱好或兴趣，你绝对热爱的，这需要一个精力你的时间，并继续前进，狂欢一下。 It's better that people know up front how important it is to you, and fellow fanatics will tune right in!最好是人们预先知道它有多重要的是你，和同事的狂热分子将调整权！
  13. Be careful with humor: Humor's great but a super-dry or tongue-in-cheek sense of humor may not work well in writing. 要小心的幽默：幽默的伟大的，但干燥或舌中，脸颊的幽默感超可能无法写作能力强英寸 People don't know you and can't see the twinkle in your eye.人们不知道你并不能看到你的眼睛闪闪发光。 You'll have ample opportunity to display your brand of wit when you're communicating one-on-one with other members.您将有充分的机会来显示自己的品牌机智当你的沟通一对与其他成员之一。
  14. Say it with feeling: Too many profiles read like a job application with flat phrases like, “I enjoy skiing, cooking and photography” which don't really tell us much. 说感觉它：告诉我们很多不实在是太多概况“，这读起来像工作申请平类似的短语，”我喜欢滑雪，烹饪和摄影。 Add emotions, thoughts and feelings into the mix.添加到混合情绪，思想和感情。 The idea is to showcase your personality and make a connection on an emotional level.这个想法是要展示你的个性，使情感层面上的一个连接。
  15. Be positive: Our bugbears say something about the type of person we are but keep them to a minimum in your profile or they'll say something bad! 是积极的：我们的bugbears说坏一些关于该类型的人，我们只是让他们在最低限度的个人资料，或他们会说什么！ Focus on the things that make you feel good and you'll come across as a fun date.上的东西，让你感觉良好，并聚焦你会作为一个有趣的日期跨越。
  16. Don't dwell on past relationships: Too much talk of past relationships is a sure way to scare off potential dates. 不要纠缠于过去的关系：过多谈论过去的关系是一种肯定的方式来吓跑潜在的日期。 It doesn't show much commitment to moving along in life with someone new.它没有表现出很大的承诺，朝着新的生活与别人一起。 However, some services touch on the subject in their profiles in which case you can give it a more interesting, positive twist by talking in general terms about lessons learned, where you are today and what your hopes are for future relationships.然而，在一些学科化服务的profiles触摸这种情况下你可以给它是由约吸取的经验教训，在那里你今天和你的希望为未来的关系是笼统讲一个更有趣的，积极的转折。
  17. Describe your ideal match in your own words: If you have an opportunity to describe the type of person you're looking to meet in your own words, use it. 描述你的理想匹配您自己的话：如果你有机会来形容的人你要找的类型，以满足自己的话，使用它。 If someone reads your profile and likes you, they'll know right away whether or not they're a likely candidate for your affections.如果有人读您的个人资料，喜欢你，他们马上就会知道他们是否是一个可能的候选人为你的欢心。 On the other hand, don't be too picky or demanding!另一方面，不要太挑剔或要求！ One idea is to limit yourself to the three or four attributes that you value most in a partner and perhaps one big turn off (you want to keep it positive overall).一种想法是限制自己的三个或四个属性，你的价值的合作伙伴最多，也许有大关闭（你希望保持它的积极的整体）。
  18. Describe the kind of dates you enjoy: Make it easy for people to ask you on a date by giving them an idea of the kind of dates you enjoy. 描述你喜欢那种日期：使人们更容易享受你问一个日期通过给他们你的想法的日期种。 For instance, “I like a relaxing atmosphere where you can chat and get to know someone,” or, “Doing something new and exciting together is a great way to get to know someone.”例如，“我喜欢轻松的氛围，让您可以聊天，认识一个人，”或“新事物和令人兴奋的一起是一个伟大的方式来了解的人。”
  19. Promote yourself as a great date: When someone likes what they read in your profile, they'll probably wonder what kind of date you'd make. 促进自己作为一个伟大的日期：当有人喜欢读什么，他们在你的个人资料，他们可能会想知道什么样的日期，你会做。 In other words, you seem interesting and attractive but would you be the date from hell?Put this question to rest with upfront information that paints a great picture of what it would be like to date you.换句话说，你似乎有趣和有吸引力的，但你会从地狱日期？提出这个问题的休息与前期信息，描绘了它会像你约会伟大的作品。 For instance, perhaps you're a good listener who likes a quiet, relaxing atmosphere where you can talk and get to know someone, or a sociable energetic type who thinks that doing something new and exciting together is the best way to get to know someone.When your admirers know you're on the same page in terms of dating style, they're more likely to take the next step and ask you out, or at least to get to know you better, confident you'll be a great date.例如，也许你是一个善于倾听谁喜欢安静，轻松的氛围，让您可以谈，了解一个人，精力充沛的类型或社交谁认为做一些新的和令人兴奋的一起是最好的方式去了解别人。当你的崇拜者们知道你在同一页上正处于约会风格，他们更可能采取的下一步骤，问你的付款方式，或者至少让你加深了解，相信自己会成为一个伟大的日期。 And if your dating styles are completely out of tune, at least you've avoided finding it out the hard way – on that date from hell.如果你的约会风格完全格格不入，至少你已经发现它避免了艰难的历程 - 从地狱上的日期。
  20. Create a Master Profile: Save all your profile information and entries in a master file so you don't have to start from scratch if you're planning on using more than one service. 创建一个主配置文件：保存所有您的个人信息和文件项在主，这样你就不必从头开始，如果你服务的规划使用不止一个。 Profiles vary considerably from service to service but many parts will be similar.概况差别很大从服务到服务，但许多地方将是相似的。

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