Men Looking for Women Online Are All Fat and Ugly男找女線上所有脂肪和醜陋
A woman writing into Dan and Jennifer at the一個女人寫入王丹和珍妮在 American Chronicle美國紀事 complained that all men looking for women online are fat and ugly.抱怨說，所有男找女網上的脂肪和醜陋。 She said all the men in the pictures she has seen at her online dating service are fat and they obviously don't look after themselves.她說，所有的男子的照片，她曾見過她的網上約會服務的脂肪，他們顯然不照顧自己。 She wonders if all the men who use online dating services are over weight slobs.她想知道如果所有的男人誰使用網上約會服務，超過重量slobs。
Well, obesity is a big problem in America and there are plenty of over-weight people around.那麼，肥胖是一個大問題在美國也有大量的過重周圍的人。 You'll find fat guys everywhere including all the usual places you might go when you're looking to get a date or find a mate.你會發現到處發球員，其中包括所有常見的地方，你可能會去當你希望得到一個日期或找到伴侶。
The advantage you have with online dating is choice.你的優勢與在線約會的選擇。 At the usual dating hangouts, like a bar, there might be a dozen single guys hanging around.在通常的約會好去處，如酒吧，可能有12個單一的傢伙師傅。 Seven of them are fat, three are drunk and one gives you the eye while picking his nose.其中七是脂肪，有3位是喝醉了，一個讓您的眼睛，而挑選他的鼻子。 That leaves one decent guy and he's probably gay.這使得一個正派的人，他的可能是同性戀。
When you use an online dating service you have hundreds or even thousands of men to choose from.當您使用網上約會服務，您有數百甚至數千人的選擇。 Sure some of them, maybe even a lot of them, have spent so much time at McDonald's that they made employee of the month but you can just pass them by and move on to the next.當然其中的一些，甚至很多，其中，花了這麼多時間，在麥當勞員工，他們提出的1個月，你可以通過他們的，並轉移到下一個。
Be persistent.是持久的。 Realize that there are new people joining dating services all the time.發現有新的人加入約會服務所有的時間。 And you can join more than one dating service.你還可以參加一個以上的約會服務。 Most of the good ones allow you to go a long way toward meeting someone interesting, and slim, and fit, with a non-alcoholic six-pack, before you have to pay any money – if that's what you're looking for.大多數好的讓你去長的路對會議感興趣的人，苗條，適應，與非酒精六包之前，您必須支付的金錢-如果這就是你要找的。
Of course for many people a plus-size is not a problem, hence the popularity of當然，對許多人一多，大小不是問題，因此普及 BBW dating sites BBW約會網站 for “Big Beautiful Women” (BBW) as well as “Big Handsome Men” (BHM).對“大美女”（BBW）等，以及“大美男子”（BHM中）。
This person will regret what they said, one day they to will be overweight.此人將後悔他們說，有一天他們的將是超重。 You have to be careful what you say in life for it will come back to haunt you.你要小心你所說的生活會回來困擾著你。 This person only sees what is on the outside, which is a shame, because there are a lot of overweight people with good hearts and provide the best relationships.此人只看到什麼是在外部，這是一種恥辱，因為他們有很多超重的人具有良好的心，並提供最好的關係。 Where a lot of thin people are so stuck on themselves for being nice looking they are only happy with their looks and missing out on a true good relationship.凡很多苗條的人是如此堅持自己是好看的，他們只是很高興與他們的外表和錯失了真正的良好關係。 A lot of guys use women that are thin.還有很多婦女對球員的使用是薄。 They go for beauty on the outside.他們去美在外面。 They are users.他們是用戶。 Shame.羞恥。
Dear Laurie,親愛的勞裡，
Well done.幹得好。 You are quite right – and she is quite wrong.你說得很對-她是十分錯誤的。 Firstly, men (and women) using dating services come in all shapes and sizes.首先，男性（和女性）使用約會服務在所有的形狀和大小。 She needs new glasses – or to admit the fact that she only has eyes for larger men!她需要新的眼鏡-還是承認一個事實，她只有眼睛較大的男子！ Secondly, a generous body is always preferable to a small mind.其次，一個慷慨的身體總比一個小的態度。 Everyone who uses online dating services can and should be 100% proud and confident of who they are – someone's perfect match!無論是誰使用網上約會服務能夠而且應該100％的驕傲和自信他們是誰-一個人的完美結合！
BS!學士！ I only date guys that are in shape, preferably men that work hard to take care of their bodies.我只是球員的日期是在形狀，最好男子努力照顧自己的身體。 Men or Women that play the “fat people have great hearts' are just making excuses for being overweight.男性或女性扮演的“胖人有很大的心'，只是找藉口存在肥胖。 Hey, fit people are good hearts too – and as a bonus are a pleasure to look at.嘿，好適合人們心中太-和獎金是賞心悅目。
It might be true that the poster is going to be in for a rude awakening one day, but what she said is true for both men and women.它可能是真實的海報將是在猛然驚醒了一天，但她說是真正的男子和婦女。 As an overweight guy it's something we have to deal with daily.作為一個超重的傢伙這是我們要處理的日常。
People like her and the last poster Cindy are classic examples of why some men give up dating altogether.人們喜歡她，最後海報辛迪是典型的例子，為什麼有些人完全放棄了約會。 Her ignorance of the various reasons why people are overweight is pretty common with most people.她無知的各種原因的人是超重是相當常見的大多數人。
Do these women have anything to offer the men they're going after besides they're looks??這些婦女是否有任何人提供他們打算在他們看來，除了？？