Where Did All the Good Men Go?
Women have been asking this for decades. You ‘ve probably asked yourself that question, on a Friday or Saturday night when faced with a choice between watching yet another Friends rerun or a night out with the girls.
But here’s the strange thing: men say the same thing, they ask ‘where did all the good girls go’.
Look around, there’s plenty of guys. Lots of good looking guys and you probably know many guys who you’d be happy to date and spend time with. But those guys are not with you, not today, not tonight – and it probably seems – not ever.
So why are’t you with a guy you really want? It’s not your fault. It’s because of a number of misconceptions about what men really want in a woman that have been spread far and wide in the media.
You already have all you need to attract men in droves, you just need to know what men really want and how to use what you already have.
What Does a Man Really Look for In a Woman?
First thing to understand is that when most women say ‘I can’t attract men’ what you are really saying is ‘I can’t attract the RIGHT man’.
For women who are looking for a long term, committed, adult relationship, this is a real tough problem. You probably know what I mean. A guy asks you out, you go out together, have a good time (or so it seems) but things go nowhere, he seems content with dating, but not to a depth and commitment to the two of you as a couple.
Again, this is not your fault! You have been told the wrong things in movies, magazines and even by friends and family. Now is the time to start putting matters right so that you can get what you want and deserve!
Just as with women, every man is different but there are some things that most men share in common. If you are looking for a ‘real’ man, that is an emotionally mature man willing to be part of a relationship of increasing commitment and depth then here are four things that most men would agree are important to them – possibly unexpectedly – this doesn’t include sex. Read on to find out more!
You want to meet women. You want to sleep with women.That need is built into your DNA but you also want to find the one woman that you can stay with, share your life with and perhaps even have a family with.
But maybe you feel like you can’t achieve these goals because:
- You’re not a “player” and don’t want to be a “player”
- You’re not great at talking to women, just don’t have that “player” patter down
- You’re maybe carrying too much weight
- Maybe you feel your looks have you at a disadvantage, meaning you’re not “to die for”
- Or maybe you think your wallet isn’t hefty enough to have a chance with the women you want
You really aren’t at a disadvantage though. It is very possible for YOU to:
- Date, and sleep with, the most attractive women that you know, or want to know
- Start really dating that wonderful girl who has been your “friend” for what seems forever
- Make your friends green with jealousy when you get dates with the women they want to be with
You may have listened to all sorts of so-called “experts” telling you how to have the most beautiful women in the world queuing up to sleep with you or how you can have more and more ever so passionate dates. Maybe some of this stuff even works.
But most guys don’t want to be a “player” or a “super-stud” or to have lots of notches on the bed post. Most of us just want to meet attractive women, have good relationships, and eventually find that one woman to spend your life with.
The real key here is to make
the women You want … want to be with You
I guess that sounds easy but how does it happen in the real world? How do you make the women you want want to be with you?
Well really, it’s not hard to do. And you don’t have to be tricky, unethical, sneaky or two-faced to do it. Find out what the “big secret” is to attracting women, read the last part of this article.
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